#Bloganuary Day 4

What is a treasure that’s been lost?

It is said that “Trust is like an eraser, it gets smaller and smaller after every mistake.” 

As I get older I am understanding even better that it is not easy to have a great relationship with people. It doesn’t matter the set of people and where you encounter them. In a family or in an institution setting. 

This being said, it doesn’t block the possibility of having and building a good relationship. As hard as it may seem at times, it is possible to build one, for relationship takes some working in progress, work that comes with joy from within when everything comes together.

I once had an idea and attitude about a brother/friend. A brother/friend I once wished to have. But ooh my world, all those were an illusion. 

In less than six months, I watched as my relationship with my brother/friend just came down head long.  I saw dramatic flare-ups and drawn-out slow fades, and as much as I tried to rescue it, it slipped away from me like a fresh fish fighting for its life in the hands of a fisherman. 

As my text and emails went unanswered so were my calls ignored and later I was turned to a subject. A subject that was to be subjective to the superiority of the one I trusted with my very life.

It is now one year since all this happened, and I do not regret having broken that relationship that I TREASURED and now I LOST MY TRUST.